Friday, March 27, 2009
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Document, Yep! New Court Date, Yep.
Hello All,
Just a quick update - as I can't really think clearly! Could this all finally be happening???
Yep!
The document has been completed, is sufficient, and has been submitted to MoWA for review before the court date!
There has however, been a little change in date. The court date is NOT tomorrow, but it is on FRIDAY! My worker informed me of this change today and I just stated - well, it's easier to celebrate on a Friday :) I'm hoping that this peace of mind I have is a sign that she is FINALLY coming home!
I also asked when I could possibly be traveling and she stated that it could be as early as April 13th! Why is this amazing?
1. Because it's 17 days after court AND
2. That means that I would be arriving April 14th or 15th! EXACTLY one year after I was officially able to begin this whirlwind of a process to bring her home. That's right, I may be turning 26 years old in Ethiopia! And I certainly couldn't even imagine a better birthday miracle!
Hoping for an AMAZING outcome on Friday!! It's just beyond comprehension that I could be planing my trip to Ethiopia to pick up MY DAUGTHER in just 2 days!!
I must stop typing because I can only write in CAPS and can only finish my sentences in exclamation points.
Just a quick update - as I can't really think clearly! Could this all finally be happening???
Yep!
The document has been completed, is sufficient, and has been submitted to MoWA for review before the court date!
There has however, been a little change in date. The court date is NOT tomorrow, but it is on FRIDAY! My worker informed me of this change today and I just stated - well, it's easier to celebrate on a Friday :) I'm hoping that this peace of mind I have is a sign that she is FINALLY coming home!
I also asked when I could possibly be traveling and she stated that it could be as early as April 13th! Why is this amazing?
1. Because it's 17 days after court AND
2. That means that I would be arriving April 14th or 15th! EXACTLY one year after I was officially able to begin this whirlwind of a process to bring her home. That's right, I may be turning 26 years old in Ethiopia! And I certainly couldn't even imagine a better birthday miracle!
Hoping for an AMAZING outcome on Friday!! It's just beyond comprehension that I could be planing my trip to Ethiopia to pick up MY DAUGTHER in just 2 days!!
I must stop typing because I can only write in CAPS and can only finish my sentences in exclamation points.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Photos from Amy!
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Passing Court Still Possible
Hello All,
A little update on the status of our court date. Our court date is scheduled for March 26th. That's the great news - it's now under two weeks away. Gladney let me know February 26th that this would be our new court date and that they were confident they would be able to complete the new process to get the document in that time. Great! And it's true - they completed the process. The bad news - the document isn't sufficient for MoWA (as in it is not worded correctly). So what does that mean? Does it mean that they return to the court and request re-wording of the document?
Nope - not that simple - which I still do not completely understand. Now they have decided that the best opportunity to receive a document in the exact language that MoWA prefers will be by traveling to Hossaina, to request the document from a kebele there (Beamlak's birth family is from this town in SNNPR, though Beamlak was born in Addis).
All we can hope for now is that they will issue a document in the exact language MoWA prefers - otherwise - I don't know what the other options are.
I'm sure hoping March 26th is our day. Right after our last court date I wrestled with the decision to travel to Ethiopia - even after finding out that I would not be allowed to visit Beamlak. I finally decided that I just couldn't make the trip - there was no way that I could travel all the way to Ethiopia, visit Addis and not visit the home that was and continues to be the home of my heart.
A little update on the status of our court date. Our court date is scheduled for March 26th. That's the great news - it's now under two weeks away. Gladney let me know February 26th that this would be our new court date and that they were confident they would be able to complete the new process to get the document in that time. Great! And it's true - they completed the process. The bad news - the document isn't sufficient for MoWA (as in it is not worded correctly). So what does that mean? Does it mean that they return to the court and request re-wording of the document?
Nope - not that simple - which I still do not completely understand. Now they have decided that the best opportunity to receive a document in the exact language that MoWA prefers will be by traveling to Hossaina, to request the document from a kebele there (Beamlak's birth family is from this town in SNNPR, though Beamlak was born in Addis).
All we can hope for now is that they will issue a document in the exact language MoWA prefers - otherwise - I don't know what the other options are.
I'm sure hoping March 26th is our day. Right after our last court date I wrestled with the decision to travel to Ethiopia - even after finding out that I would not be allowed to visit Beamlak. I finally decided that I just couldn't make the trip - there was no way that I could travel all the way to Ethiopia, visit Addis and not visit the home that was and continues to be the home of my heart.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Photos and Update!
I received the following photo of Beamlak earlier this week:
I couldn't help but laugh (and be a little sad) about her hair and the look on her face saying... "really, do you need to take this photo?"



Whoever the family is, I am so VERY grateful to them!!! I love the photos! More updates to come about the process :)
I couldn't help but laugh (and be a little sad) about her hair and the look on her face saying... "really, do you need to take this photo?"

I received the following update this morning and I was SO GRATEFUL to wake up to it this morning. It was certainly the beginning of a WONDERFUL day today:
"Surprise…here are a few more pictures for you. Ryan said a family that recently traveled took them. She is as beautiful as ever!
Also, I hope to have an update for you tomorrow. Belay did say that **** did go to the local court with the three witnesses and everything went well. Belay said our staff still needs to get the document and make sure it is worded correctly for MOWA to approve. I hope to have an update for you early part of next week. I will let you know as soon as I hear something. Belay said he feels very good about getting this done."
Yippie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Whoever the family is, I am so VERY grateful to them!!! I love the photos! More updates to come about the process :)
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Doc no longer needed... additional court date necessary...
Okay, so the document that was being requested - is no longer needed. In fact the Kebele is no longer issuing the document that had been requested by MoWA. What IS necessary is an additional LOCAL court date!!!!!!!!
Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Honestly?????????
What I'm referring to here is not the usual Federal First Instance Court, but a local court. So the person who needs to complete the document and has shown up at the Kebele 4 times already, now needs to request an additional court date for him/herself. After that ruling - a opinion will be issued. After an opinion is issued, the Federal First Instance Court and MoWA will review the opinion and then supposedly grant the adoption.
How much fun is this??????
Gladney is hopeful that we will get a quick court date - meaning 2-4 weeks out, but it's unknown and they'll hopefully learn more tomorrow.
Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Honestly?????????
What I'm referring to here is not the usual Federal First Instance Court, but a local court. So the person who needs to complete the document and has shown up at the Kebele 4 times already, now needs to request an additional court date for him/herself. After that ruling - a opinion will be issued. After an opinion is issued, the Federal First Instance Court and MoWA will review the opinion and then supposedly grant the adoption.
How much fun is this??????
Gladney is hopeful that we will get a quick court date - meaning 2-4 weeks out, but it's unknown and they'll hopefully learn more tomorrow.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Letter to my Daugther
To my beautiful daughter,
Hi Sweetie! I just can't tell you how much I love you in this letter. Someday, I hope very soon, I'll be able to tell you just how much I love you while giving you a big, giant hug - I miss those giant hugs of yours and I miss you just sitting on my hip all day being right there beside me. You've been such a big girl and so strong getting through this long process - I'm so very very proud of you.
Ryan tells me you're doing great in school, sweetie. Keep up that great work!
Mama is staying busy getting everything ready for you to come home! Don't worry, I think you'll be kind of happy to have missed all the cold weather here - there has been a lot of snow! It's warming up and we're finally able to enjoy walking outside and playing. For me, the snow is like the rainy season - not much fun because you can't play outside as often. I haven't played outside in quite a long time because of the cold - so I'm excited to share that with you very soon and we'll be able to enjoy the warm weather together.
Inay Konjo lij - I love you always and forever and I think about you all the time. I have your pictures everywhere and am always talking about you to everyone. I'm so very proud of my little girl. When you're lonely and feel sad, know that though you cannot see me - I'm thinking about you all the time and loving you all the time - everyday and every moment. I know it's tough to stay strong, but I hope that we'll be together very very soon.
I love you. You are inay alem.
Letter to Beamlak sent via our caseworker
Document Update: Also found out today that the document needed for court on Thursday still hasn't been completed. At this point - I'm just lost. I have no idea what I should do. If we don't pass this time, will we pass next time? Should I schedule a trip to visit because I don't know how much longer this could take? What is best for Beamlak? It's just so difficult not having a timeline - and yes, I am well aware that many people struggle with this - it's just a very difficult place to be. I'm so so very blessed to work in international adoption - but last week one of my families was able to be united with their child after only accepting their referral 1 1/2 weeks ago. Amazing! Truly. And I'm so happy for them. But it just gets me thinking - Is passing after 16 months really asking too much?
Hi Sweetie! I just can't tell you how much I love you in this letter. Someday, I hope very soon, I'll be able to tell you just how much I love you while giving you a big, giant hug - I miss those giant hugs of yours and I miss you just sitting on my hip all day being right there beside me. You've been such a big girl and so strong getting through this long process - I'm so very very proud of you.
Ryan tells me you're doing great in school, sweetie. Keep up that great work!
Mama is staying busy getting everything ready for you to come home! Don't worry, I think you'll be kind of happy to have missed all the cold weather here - there has been a lot of snow! It's warming up and we're finally able to enjoy walking outside and playing. For me, the snow is like the rainy season - not much fun because you can't play outside as often. I haven't played outside in quite a long time because of the cold - so I'm excited to share that with you very soon and we'll be able to enjoy the warm weather together.
Inay Konjo lij - I love you always and forever and I think about you all the time. I have your pictures everywhere and am always talking about you to everyone. I'm so very proud of my little girl. When you're lonely and feel sad, know that though you cannot see me - I'm thinking about you all the time and loving you all the time - everyday and every moment. I know it's tough to stay strong, but I hope that we'll be together very very soon.
I love you. You are inay alem.
Letter to Beamlak sent via our caseworker
Document Update: Also found out today that the document needed for court on Thursday still hasn't been completed. At this point - I'm just lost. I have no idea what I should do. If we don't pass this time, will we pass next time? Should I schedule a trip to visit because I don't know how much longer this could take? What is best for Beamlak? It's just so difficult not having a timeline - and yes, I am well aware that many people struggle with this - it's just a very difficult place to be. I'm so so very blessed to work in international adoption - but last week one of my families was able to be united with their child after only accepting their referral 1 1/2 weeks ago. Amazing! Truly. And I'm so happy for them. But it just gets me thinking - Is passing after 16 months really asking too much?
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